Single Boomers+

The Single Boomers+ (40+) group's mission is to provide a forum for social and spiritual activities that foster personal growth, friendships, and a sense of community at LAUMC. All are welcome! Check out our list of upcoming activities.

New Singles Event

Singles are invited to our luncheon series of Educational Videos from Cloud and Townsend called "Boundaries – When to Say Yes, When to Say No; Take Control of Your Life"

When: 1st Sunday of each month, 11:30am-1:00pm

Where: Live Oak Room

RSVP to Lily Yang at lcyang@comcast.net

Boundaries, by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend, addresses specific issues that confront today's Christians. Issues such as: -Living a life out of control-Having people take advantage of us-Having trouble saying no-Being disappointed with God because of unanswered prayers and Many more vital issues A boundary is a personal property line that marks those things for which we are responsible. In other words, boundaries define who we are and who we are not. They impact all areas of our lives: Physical boundaries help us determine who may touch us and under what circumstances. Mental boundaries give us the freedom to have our own thoughts and opinions. Emotional boundaries help us deal with our own emotions and disengage from the harmful, manipulative emotions of others. Spiritual boundaries help us to distinguish God's will from our own and give us renewed awe for our Creator. Having clear boundaries is essential to a healthy, balanced lifestyle, isn't it? Often, Christians focus so much on being loving and unselfish that they forget their own limits and limitations When confronted with their lack of boundaries they ask:-Can I set limits and still be a loving person?-What are legitimate boundaries?-What if someone is upset or hurt by my boundaries?-How do I answer someone who wants my time, love, energy, or money?-Aren't boundaries selfish?-Why do I feel guilty or afraid when I consider setting boundaries?